Friday, December 31, 2010

"For Last Year's Words Belong To Last Year's Language, And Next Year's Words Await Another Voice"

The ball drops. Its flashing lights illuminate an unpaved road. Confetti falls. Men lean in for a kiss; the women make it last a lifetime. Champagne is downed. Strangers embrace. Fireworks erupt across the sky. One year dies. Another is born. Indeed, a new year has arrived.

2010 was tumultuous. Ups and downs were experienced in equal measure. The only thing that remained consistent was change - unflinching change that dared one to defy it. We could not feel the immediate effects of change, because life moves too fast to allow for sudden assessments of our rapidly developing lives. Imagine where you were last New Year's Eve, and note your personal differences today. Let your progression sink in.

For many, New Year's equates to a rebirth in which previous tribulations are relinquished and clean slates are given to all. Truthfully, it is still only a continuation. As Maximus might say, "Our actions last year will still echo throughout our eternity." Previous actions will not be undone once the ball has dropped in Time Square. Our earthly dispositions will remain quite the same. But New Year's still serves a purpose.

New Year's is perfect in its own way. It allows us to succinctly encapsulate the defining moments in our lives through a measurable timeframe. The world endured innumerable heartbreaks and countless smiles, and our lives are no exception. These moments of sadness and bliss shape the aforementioned change we regularly undergo. Once one can trace the genesis of this constant change, it can be easier to grasp and cope with along the journey.

On New Year's this year, I implore you not to shed your experiences from the previous year, but to carry them with you as building blocks and not burdens. For truly, the unforgettable memories made in the last 365 days will last much longer than the half-hearted resolutions made on January 1st, regardless of that dreaded nuisance known as change.